Love isn’t about controlling or chasing—it’s about being good either way. Most people fear being left, so they give, fix, and perform just to feel safe. In this live event, I coach a man through healing the need to control love and finally feeling whole within himself.
0:00 – The Illusion of Control
2:00 – The Root of Betrayal Energy
5:30 – Trust, Control & Fear in Relationships
8:00 – The Need to Be Needed
10:30 – Inner Child Healing Exercise
13:00 – Loving the Unwanted Part of You
16:30 – Stuffing Down Emotions
19:00 – Distraction & Self-Abandonment
22:00 – Seeking Attention Through Chaos
25:00 – Peace vs. Drama
28:00 – The Pattern of Attraction
31:00 – The Game of Validation
34:00 – The Attachment Dance
37:00 – Letting Others Feel Their Pain
40:00 – Choosing to Stop Playing the Game
44:00 – The Power of Vulnerability
46:00 – Embodying Your True Self
48:30 – Integration & Closing
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